7 - What's Good and Bad about being Alone?

ALONE


Many people nowadays, are adapting this kind of attitude being a loner. Some of them spend much of their time doing nothing, while on the other hand, some of them spend most their time doing their favorite hobbies or interests. Instead of doing their comfort zones with their circle of friends, they rather do it alone with themselves because for them it's more convenient and less hassle when they do it in a solo way.

A person who is always spending his or her time being alone has different kinds of reasons or views towards it. They have this kind of attitude where they just want to be alone in one place and stare or look at something. Like for example the wall or the ceiling, they would imagine many things while they are just staring at them. Another one is when some people go to some places like the mall or the grocery stores, they would rather go alone than to be accompanied by someone because for them it's easier to move faster. Some people just read books in one corner. They tend to feel the peace and silence surrounding them especially if they are engrossed with the story that they are reading. Also with music, people tend to listen to music all the time because they feel relaxed and calm whenever they hear one. It's like being alone with music helps them express what they feel inside them or it could possibly give them inspiration whenever they are working on something. Another one also is that many people nowadays love to be living alone in with their own lives because some of them doesn't want to be obliged with anything especially if it's about family matters.


I was able to realize many things about this topic. It really has some positive and negative things about it. Like for positive, it can help you avoid doing bad things with other people. Another one also is that you can do whatever you want. You would be able to do all your  plans and agendas. It's also possible that you won't have to worry spending or sharing time with other people. For the negative things, there is the tendency that you would become an introvert because you don't know what the people are thinking about you. You might think that people would always say negative things about you. What's worst is that you might possibly think that you are being judged. Another thing is that you can be called a loner by someone especially if you are the type of person who doesn't communicate or interact with other people. There is a possibility that your self-esteem and self-confidence would level down because you don't have someone who can support or cheer for you in the times that you need one.